Saturday, July 28, 2012

Priorities or How I went from one problem to 99 problems.

If I am a priority in your life, then you should be asking me what is going on, not waiting for me to let you know. 
I need to know you notice when I'm not around.

Protecting you to try to protect myself will not work and only be seen as me trying to hide something that you will have to "drag out" of me.
I will not worry about your feelings and will work to piss you off early and often, so get use to it.

If you need or want something from me praise and positive reinforcement will get it more from me than complaining that I am not paying attention to you after the fact.  Don't nag me to do something, entice me.
I will water the plant that feeds me before the one that pricks me.

Alluding to and resurrecting my past failures is not an effective teaching strategy.  Show me what you want, by being it and/ or make it easier for me to fill your needs. 
I can't touch that which stays out of arms reach, nor am I am mind reader.

Talk to me about our relationship, not your friends.

I won't always be your number one priority and you won't always be my number one either. 
I will have my goals, set my boundaries, if you can't live with that then find some where else to call home.

I am impatient and have a short attention span.  Deal with it.

So now, I got 99 problems, but a bitch ain't one.

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